Can you guess why this is?
Society is racist against Asian males, but makes an exception for Asian women.
Asian women prefer, en masse, to marry white males – precisely because society is racist against Asian males, and they have been doing this for decades. There are hapas now that are in their 40’s. Hell, that’s not true, there are hapas in their 70’s, from the second world war.
So…. where are they?
A lot of people like to cite white passing hapas as proof of success. Guys like Nathan Adrian. But at least half of hapas look predominantly Asian. And so, where are they?
Well, the reality is, that they don’t become successful.
Because when your mother is actively working to “whiten” and “remove” your Asian heritage, “Americanize” and assimilate you, yet you get bullied and have to deal with endless harassment and racism for being Asian – how would you ever be able to overcome that? By relying on your (maybe racist) white father? Or… your white-supremacist Asian mother who wants you to have light hair, light eyes, and pass off as white at all costs, and goes out of her way to integrate with whites at all costs, which means talking down about Asian males as part of her assimilation routine?
Here’s a good example: Darren Criss, an actor who literally admitted that he’s glad he doesn’t look Asian. This is basically the metric for success for biracials. What a wonderful world we live in.
I often wonder how WMAF couples are able to have the audacity to think that WMAF hapa sons don’t notice these things. How could we not? It’s central to our identity. The fact that Asian women are world famous for marrying white, and only white men, with the ideal being to assimilate and avoid Asianness, how on earth could a half-Asian, particularly one who looks Asian, be able to overcome this?