/r/hapas prior to 2018 or so actually discussed a lot of the real issues that were plaguing the Asian community and the biracial community – namely gendered racism and how a large chunk of half-Asian men were suffering from racism against them by the same society that fetishized and glorified Asian women. There were so many male and female biracials there that were voicing legitimate concerns and emotions about microaggressions, racism, and stupid dumb things people in our family, even Asians, and our often ignorant and racist white fathers, said. In fact, many of the earliest bloggers of the Eurasian experience were actually half-Asian women.
What happened? When did talking about your racist white dad and self-loathing Asian mother become so wrong?
Well, we made the mistake that thinking that self-hating half-Asians would somehow take our side. It was literally the opposite.
/R/hapas got taken over by very insecure hapas / biracials who relied heavily on “myths” of half-Asian handsomeness in order to get laid (though I highly doubt they are). That’s about it. They were concerned that “showing weakness” and complaining lowered the global status of Eurasian people. They didn’t care at all about full Asians, and you can see see that kind of glib mockery of the subject:
“You’re only half Asian though.”
“You’re not really Asian though.”
“I’m not Asian,” is the calling card of many insecure hapas. Their entire presentation revolves around not being Asian, because they’re insecure about being Asian. They need Asians to be beneath them, because like everyone else on this planet, they’re held hostage by life and need every opportunity and leg up they can get. Like 90% of men, 90% of biracial Asians struggle with women and don’t know what it means to be genuinely loved and genuinely sexually desired by a woman (like their fathers were not genuinely loved), so they simply have a robotic response to anything they perceive as “counter culture,” out of fear of losing the 1% chance of getting laid. Half-Asian girls, obviously, are primed by their mothers to seek integration and social ascendancy at all costs, (yes, at the cost of love; believe me, I have multiple Asian women in my family who admitted they never loved their husbands), and can’t afford to have these discussions. Don’t believe the hype: half-Asian men are not doing well on the romantic front.
The irony of all of this is that when you actually do get loved as an Asian looking male, you tend to not be so afraid of showing weakness, cause ultimately it doesn’t matter. So, in the end it just confirms what I thought. Most hapas like many biracials are deeply insecure soft-incels who throw around the term “incel” because they’re afraid of it and are afraid of any hard discussion. The one thing I learned from all of this is that the idea of being sexually desirable to women is so alien to so many men that their minds are quite literally shaped and molded by this idea, so that they are virtually incapable of breaking the box of thought patterns as told them by ultra-capitalist society.
When I first got doxxed, some people who saw my photo who were interested in that whole debacle, just said “take one look at him and you immediately can tell he’s nowhere near an incel” – which is true. I guess the fact that I’m popular with women BECAUSE I’m Asian (not because I’m mixed race), gave me the balls to stand up for Asians regardless of the consequences. Actually, now that I think about it, my experiences with how aggressive women are aligns more with the Asian male experience than it does with biracials, who are nothing but insecure, self-loathing overcompensating liars for the most part.
I thought this was an interesting post. This guy is an Asian passing half-Asian guy. His experiences sort of match up with mine. A lot of the harassment I’ve gotten (even from other hapas, and from self-loathing Asian women) has been directly as a result of my Asian looks and how insane non-Asian women can be towards me. Since I was a kid, I was fully aware that my experiences were a result of being Asian in appearance. Both the racism, as well as the insane sexual advances of non-Asian women; I never even considered myself “mixed” in this regard.
Maybe, as a result of being “hot” I felt invincible and just felt I could get away with anything I said, and to be fair, I can, as awful as it sounds (in reality, experiences like this are a huge liability and a massive mind-f*ck, because it really affects how I perceive the world). I have the balls to stand up for what I feel is right (mainly fighting against anti-Asian-male discrimination). But I can see now how a lot of insecure, ambiguous looking hapas who never experienced any of this, would need to cling to his “image” as a harmless, “almost white,” “hot” hapa who will just completely gas over racism, even from his parents.
Last but not least, I’m not being homophobic, but an inordinate amount of “happy hapas” seem to be gay hapa men, probably a result of being severely emasculated and rejected by women, and the gay community is famously racist, with white men at the top, so there’s a lot of overlap with hapas having a tendency to being “pro-white,” whether they’re libs or on the far-right. So I suppose if you’re a gay hapa male who likes to be with white men, you simultaneously solve your “alienation and racism” problems inherent to many hapa men, and you also don’t find any problem with white supremacy, since you yearn to be a part of it yourself. And of course, it goes without saying that a lot of hapa women dating white men because they feel unattractive and think that being in an asexual relationship with a white man will make them “feel whole.” It’s a mess.
An example of the vomit inducing racism that is common among the white men who deliberately seek out East Asian women; my father included.
I previously retired this topic, but after recently being triggered by yet another Nazi in Germany who has an East Asian wife – I thought I should just leave yet another permanent mark.
I’m writing this out of concern for half-Asians that will come, and half-Asians that have come before.
But – let me sum it up. My dad was a racist, basically undesirable white dude, and my mom was a mentally unstable, extremely self hating Asian woman.
My problem? People consider me Asian, and male, and I think that it’s my right to talk about this. That’s it.
I’m not against intermarriage; I’ve been with almost every race of woman. I’m not crazy. I just want to write about this, because I think it’s worth writing about. I think it’s incredibly unfair and cruel. Heck, maybe the fact that I’m attractive to women gives me the balls to write about this in the first place, cause, what will I lose? People can call me incel and a “bitter full Asian man” all they want, but stepping outside proves otherwise.
Imagine looking predominantly Chinese (or, more specifically, non-white), yet you have a Chinese mother who wants to have “white children,” and a white, racist father who wanted to “replace” white women with “submissive, traditional” East Asian women. I see this ALL the time, and I’m the only one ringing alarm bells about it, and have been the only for, for the better part of 15 years. This is stuff I knew instinctively since I was a kid. I’ve been standing up for Asian men my entire life.
Ever heard of QAnon? Yes, that QAnon – the far right conspiracy theory? Guess who’s behind it? The owner of the far right 8chan forum that produced multiple Neo Nazi mass shooters. Father, and his half-Asian son. Like they say in far right circles, “never ask a white nationalist what race his wife is.”
As we all know, being East Asian and male means that you, by default, are treated as “other,” meaning people don’t really even view you as a man, you’re at best, an “exception”. People feel they have the right to talk down to you. We all know East Asian women are highly sought after by a subset of “weird” men – but this creates half-Asian children that have roughly a 50% chance of coming out looking Asian, and 50% chance of being male. So, let’s just say for argument’s sake, that maybe 20% of half-Asians come out looking:
Too Asian.
This is basically, the worst case scenario for self-hating Asian women, my mother included, and obviously bad for creepy, far-right, ultra conservative white men looking for someone to replace his white-power fix with. The real world operates on principles of hierarchies, and looking “too Asian” and being male makes one a convenient punching bag for peoples’ insecurities.
The divide between “happy hapas” and the hapas who complain, is whether or not we actually look East Asian (also, whether we’re straight*, or not). I look or at least have been bullied for being East Asian – which means that I must look East Asian enough to be unhappy and traumatized, by all the negative things people have said and done to me. If I had to sum up how this world views race – even how so called progressives view race – whiteness is the ideal end-game, because it basically means “an easier life.” And this reflects heavily on the mental states of mixed race people of all stripes. *I mention straight, because a strangely high number of biracial Asian men are gay, and this means that they serve a “function” to the white power structure.
That’s the gist of this all.
My dad was a racist (usual Holocaust denial, Ezra Pound reader, Nixon was good, Enoch Powell is legit reading, HAM radio listening, blacks are the devil, Latinos are taking over America, Muslims are Satanic, gays are evil, Jews are evil, etc., run of the mill hardcore racism) but he admitted that he had Asperger’s and this may have had a correlation with him going for a Chinese woman. Basically, he could not get a white woman, as blunt as that sounds. Like most white men, I’m sure he preferred a white woman, but simply felt rejected by them.
That’s it. La donna e mobile, and some men just can’t get laid, and East Asian women are their fix.
“Well, I can’t get laid, but at least I can give East Asian women my big white dick, since Asian men are so pathetic.” That’s literally what Cenk Uyghur said in his college blog – and now he’s “apologized” and has a half-Asian son. Did he apologize AFTER having a half-Asian son? Yep!
Originally, my daddy dearest wanted a Japanese woman, since he studied Japanese and had a masters in it, but I guess he settled for a Chinese woman who was also studying Japanese. He deeply resented black men and Latino men for apparently “stealing” white women. He was deathly afraid of sex, and he feared that black and darker men were more sexually capable of getting laid than himself – though he never directly admitted it. Based on his behavioral patterns, he was just a far right incel afraid of women. He was autistic, aspie, antisocial, whatever, but he literally just could not get laid like a normal dude. So, an Asian woman it was. Men highly prioritize sex, and when they feel as if white women are not going to give it to him (but give it to someone else that he feels does not deserve it), he will seek to get his needs, and ego, met elsewhere, completely voiding on the cognitive dissonance of being a white nationalist with an Asian wife.
Whether being incel comes first, or far right politics comes first, is up in the air; I suspect they compound on one another. But East Asian women in particular are the right-wing, insecure man’s chance to become the “dominant” one and “take control” of women, when he is rejected by “slutty” white women. Am I saying that white women are the most attractive? Not to me, personally, since as a red blooded male – I like all women, but in the minds of many men, and women alike, there is a resentful jealousy of white women. What I’m saying is that East Asian and Southeast Asian women are basically a “sexual safety net” to catch the insecurities of every unattractive (mentally, physically, but usually both) man on the planet.
I’m still piecing together bits of my family story but apparently my dad had an ex (white) girlfriend who left him for a Mexican national who was some kind of cartel banker (I don’t know if he was exaggerating or what, but he was obsessed with cartels). A lot, and I mean a lot, of far right personalities and figureheads favor East Asian women because they view them as traditional and less likely to sleep with black or ethnic men, or sleep around at all. Look up John Derbyshire – a literal white nationalist with a Chinese wife, a son, and a daughter; he explicitly encouraged his daughter to marry white, and celebrated that his grandson looked like Winston Churchill. His son? Still single.
Richard Spencer, Chuck C. Johnson, “Based Stickman” Kyle Chapman, Jim Watkins (founder of 8Chan) and co-conspirator in the ridiculous QAnon conspiracy theory (along with his Half-Asian son, Ron Watkins), Charles Murray (the author of the racist book “the Bell Curve”) – all have been with or are currently married to East Asian or Southeast Asian women. Even if you’re a liberal, a conservative, whatever, or literally anyone of any normative sensibility – do you really want the children of said men running around? Does this create a healthy society? Or, have we become so societally broken that we no longer care?
These far right types view white women as the “whorish” enemy subjected to “liberal feminist propaganda”, but in reality, they’re just unattractive men who couldn’t get a white / any woman to give them bedroom eyes, and they turned to the far right as a way to fight against the meat grinder that is free sexuality. Politics, in general, are nothing but a coping mechanism for the male sex drive and said men’s exclusion from sexuality.
I suspect a lot if not most Asian and even half-Asian women are genuinely asexual, which makes them less “slutty,” which means in the far-right white man’s mind, they cannot cheat and “divorce rape” white men. After all, you can’t bang another man if you can’t bang at all. However, the asexuality generally causes problems, because no marriage can be fulfilled while being asexual…. but I’ll touch on that later.
A lot of Asian women marry white men specifically for the social standing, or because they want to “avoid” sexuality with Asian men. Others do it because they are averse to the idea of love, and simply want to marry someone to provide them with access to more fluid social mobility. This doesn’t mix well with white men who want “submissive Asian sex dolls” to replace “white feminist sluts.” When you take an incel, put him into a dead bedroom with an Asian woman, there’s a high likelihood his mental illness will compound. Bad for kids.
My Chinese family is filled with literal psychopaths. Many of them are at the top level in East Coast society, and they’re genuinely psychos, self hating to the max, extreme liars (particularly about the source of their wealth), abusive to their children, siblings, even to my father. My mother’s brother, a super rich guy, was apparently a horrible bully to his sisters, always calling them ugly. My mom, now I realize like much of my family, was not attractive by Chinese standards and I think this led to their journey to the west and this insane overcompensation with money and social status at the expense of everyone they’ve met. Chinese people, and to a similar extent many East Asians, operate on principles of pure pragmatism.
This may have contributed to my mother’s mentality, but she was also genuinely psychotic, so it’s hard to forgive, and twenty years after she killed herself I have no room to empathize anymore. She resented my father, mocked him for being white, always complained to my brother that whites were lazy and hated studying, had no ambition, etc. She also was an extreme feminist and admitted that she had always wanted daughters, not two sons. This was so extreme that she attempted to kill me several times by driving at high speeds and swerving rapidly while screaming at me that she was going to kill me. I don’t know if she was doing this because I looked more Asian and reminded her of Asian men, or because she wanted to get back at my father who she thought was a loser. (There’s been speculation that many WMAF couples prefer having daughters, over sons, for obvious reasons; a half-Asian son is a liability, an uncertainty, but a daughter is a pawn to be played in the quest for white assimilation).
My parents never had sex, never even said I love you, never kissed, never hugged, etc; (I genuinely suspect most WMAF couples do not have sex, which leads to even more extreme behavior, like the guy who killed John Lennon). She was routinely abusive to us, beating us with knives, hot clothes irons, violin bows, coat hangers, calling us stupid, worthless, etc. She used to yell at my father while he was eating to the point that for years he would cover his face with his hand while eating to avoid the shame of her mocking the way he chewed. My father was forced to sleep on the floor, or on the couch outside of her bedroom, for the better part of 20 years. My mother would drag me into her bedroom and have me lie down next to her in her depressive state and tell me what a loser my father was – things like “he eats an entire bag of chips at once.”
I talked to her sisters about this (one married Chinese, still in love with husband who she earns more than), and one who has been with two white men and admitted she never loved them and I’m almost positive is a 60 year old virgin. The latter woman, has a white / Jewish boyfriend that I’m certain without a shadow of a doubt that she has never even kissed, and every time they’re together, she just viciously verbally abuses him: “are you stupid? What’s wrong with you?”
Both women gaslit me about the abuse I went through and were shocked that I had issues, (I guess they think I look too white, which I don’t think I do because of my bones), but I got my WMAF aunt to open up about how she never loved her white partners and was paranoid about Asian men cheating (because apparently she suspected her father of cheating). She still has an open resentment against AMWF when I bring up an uncle of mine who has been married to white women – I tested her response by mentioning this and she literally just asked: “what race is his wife, White?!” She’ll then make comments about how all Chinese and Japanese men are short – and looks at me as if I don’t somehow think that’s disturbing.
Well, as we know, hell hath no fury.
However, I suspect that deep down, the idea of marrying a white person is just more pragmatic. Asians are literally on the razor’s edge of pushing the boundaries of survivalist pragmatism. I have no rhyme or reason to explain any of this, other than it’s hellish. I should note I by circumstance have another adopted aunt on my white side of the family, who also married two white men, and in a completely separate conversation mentioned she did not love them. I suspect she knew of my reputation and activism and was trying to comfort me.
I have seen weird things in life, though; I had an old friend whose sister was dating a black guy and he was super insecure about it, and he only dated Asian girls. He wound up with a half-Asian girl who according to rumor wasn’t sleeping with him a year before the marriage…. and I had proof she was stalking me, instead. She was the type of hapa girl to basically be primed since birth to marry a white man by her mother – and was taking up the mantle of asexual status marriage to a hu-white man. I have a female cousin who is a full blown racist who always talks about how great white people are, and when traveling to Asia and back, she claimed that she would kiss every white person she saw when she arrived at JFK airport. J -F – Friggin’ – K Airport! – go count how many white people are there. She also has a white boyfriend that she refuses to bring to family gatherings because, in her words, “he’s too ugly.” Perfectly normal WMAF things.
These people scare me. Basically, for whatever reason, I see through “marriage,” and the BS that people push, and understand life for what it is.
I don’t know how much of any of what my family tells me about their past is true (people have a tendency to lie) but from what I garner the whole thing is a mess. My brother is a mess, and is a far-right, almost 40 year old shut-in despite my best attempts to fix this. He is self-loathing and firmly believes East Asian men are feminine, can’t get girls, and he himself resents black men having sex with white women.
My conclusion after all of this time, is that I honestly also think that East Asian women have a viciously pragmatist, asexual view of life, which means that they are more willing to engage in a pragmatist, asexual relationship with a white man for a maximum return on privilege and social ascendancy. However, the problem is that when you have a Neo-Nazi white father who hates white women and ethnic minorities, and an East Asian mother, yet do not look white, and worse, look Asian (which nets you extreme bullying by western society) – you will be screwed in the head. In what world, literally, in what world – would a half-Asian with racist parents be able to function?
In the ideal world of far-right white men and East Asian women – basically, they will “replace” men of color and white women… the only barrier to this endgame being how white the kids look. Tell me – do half-Asians look white?
“Happy hapas” generally are the ones who look more white. It’s a roll of the dice and considered a victory for a hapa to look white. If you don’t believe me, go ask one; they have all the same tendency to celebrate how “white” they look and they hyper-analyze their white heritage to minute and ridiculous levels – all out of overcompensation over their “inferior” Asian blood.
The way my Chinese family tells me to “use my white privilege” is disgusting, but fairly typical nihilistic Chinese bullshit. Again, I apparently look Asian enough to those with discretion, because I have very “Asian bones.” How do I know this? I literally had someone say that to me, verbatim. I’ve heard everything from “you have a very Asian body,” to “when you tilt your head down, you look fully Asian.” People are weird.
As a result, some people say I look predominantly Asian, while others say I look whiter (to an extent that I don’t really identify as mixed). Ultimately, when people find out that you’re half Asian, they will eviscerate you for it to the point that you give up talking about being half white at all, in my case.
I myself have been bullied for it by friends and family, and have heard from East Asian women themselves who went out of their way to mock me for it. The universal theme is that people always make comments about my lack of sexual prowess; on three separate occasions, I’ve had literal East Asian women mock me for “getting no pussy.” That is weird – because I had my first time at 12 years old; but it’s like a go to instinct of people to suggest that East Asian men and half-East Asian men are incapable of having sexual relationships. In this regard, a large chunk of East Asian women literally behave like incels in their hyper focus on how seemingly “pathetic” East Asian men are. Incels, in general, are preoccupied with racial sexual hierarchies, just like Elliot Rodger. The bigger irony here is that Asian women are indeed the literal definition of celibate, so the fact that they simultaneously try to push their mixed sons as sexual demigods, and yet bully them if they look too Asian, is bizarre.
A non-functional, asexual marriage to a white man is less problematic than not being able to integrate properly. “Love” need not apply.
I’m on the taller side (not by a huge margin, though, and I’ve come across very tall half-Asian men who very clearly can’t get laid) and very socially adept so this may have negated a lot of the problems, that other biracials have and I was raised in NYC’s Chinatown with predominantly Chinese friends, which also maybe saved me; also by pure circumstance my young life just put me around a lot of OTHER biracials – all of whom, for some strange, almost supernatural reason, had East Asian or non-white fathers, and subconsciously this saved me (I suspect WMAF biracials never really go that far in life). I was about 28 when I realized all the biracials I knew had Asian dads, meaning that my suspicions about how screwed up WMAF biracials are, was correct.
Asians, on the other hand, are some of the worst offenders of antagonizing and alienating biracials. Growing up in Chinatown, my friends acknowledged I was Asian, while others will tell me I’m white if only to piss me off the way that sociopathic, self-loathing Asian people just seem to love doing. And yes, while I’d love to avoid this subject- a lot of Asian women just absolutely thrive in trying to weaponize me; one moment I’m “white” and proof that biracials are “white,” and the next I’m “too Asian” to be seen as sexual. However, again, I grew up in Chinatown, which was, for a good part of my life, somewhat of a buffer.
However, from what I understand, a lot of white men (including my father) want to raise their half-Asian children in white areas, alongside their “replacement white woman” wife. This is disastrous in so many ways.
My father used to fight my mother before she commit suicide, telling me that I should leave “Jew York City” and move to his rural hometown. It’s a mess. My mother, before she took her own life, repeatedly warned me not to go with my father to his all-white town. At very least, I owe her that.
I can understand how hapas in general will be a huge mess, especially given how racist a chunk of Asian women are towards anyone who even looks vaguely East Asian and male.
I think among hapas, there’s a lot of latent resentment against Asian men for a number of reasons, and there’s even a hierarchy of how valuable a Eurasian is based on how non-Asian we look. Looking more Asian bumps you down the totem-pole. Looking anything short of a young Leonardo DiCaprio as an half-Asian, is tantamount to being seen as worthless; because of how long and pervasive these ridiculous and unfounded biases against Asians have been, to the extent that the only “good” Asian is a mixed one, and only if he’s a supermodel.
This is the reason why, despite trying to bring attention to this subject of racist WMAF for so long, ultimately other half-Asians tried to silence me. At the end of the day, many if not most half-Asians truly take after their parents’ racism and asexuality, and ultimately view being a Nazi with an Asian wife less heinous than the crime of being proudly Asian and refusing to assimilate. Also, a lot of biracial Asians are fundamentally insecure, and rely heavily on myths of being super sexy, (despite this not being true well over half the time), in order to function – and when a biracial Asian complains, that makes them lose their flimsy hold on social status and whatever chance they have of getting laid.
(I must note that a huge, huge majority of hapa / biracial women marry white, and this creates a massive chip in the mind of the biracial Asian male). If you don’t believe me, find a biracial Asian and talk to him and wait five minutes before the Asian joke comes out or he says something that proves how insecure he is about being Asian. Hell, I’ve even heard from other biracial men, bullying towards the fact that I look “more Asian.”
People’s mentalities are rooted in survival, and it doesn’t matter how evil an act is, ultimately they will choose survival and integration over moral integrity. Also, as I get older, I start to suspect that there is an intense resentment against East Asian men, and, maybe, just maybe I think my success with women despite being East Asian looking – is one of the reasons why people have zero sympathy for East Asian men or Asian looking biracials. Remember, my aunt told me that she feared most Asian guys were cheaters and players – and I’m torn on whether or not she’s lying about this, or if, based on how aggressive women are towards me despite knowing I’m Asian – if we / I am a player. But again, I’m also fully aware that most Hapas I see are nothing short of celibate.
I’m sure you’ve heard of Elliot Rodger. He’s one of the most famous half-Asians of all time.
Aside from the heinous mass murder, Elliot Rodger was a fairly run of the mill Hapa / Halfie / Eurasian male. He hated and thought he was better than full Asians, overcompensating for his insecurity by talking about how he was a “beautiful Eurasian,” and was basically just a loud mouthed, racist permavirgin. With the high number of Eurasians born from self-hating Asian moms and (racist) white fathers, it’s really no stretch of imagination to understand why half-Asians are the way they are.
Elliot was raised to think he was a superior Eurasian, rather than an Asian, wasn’t able to deal with the microaggressions and endless torrent of dumb comments that come with being any-percent Asian. Most people make racial comments to anyone with Asian blood, and Elliot was simply raised to think that it didn’t apply to him and it didn’t NEED to apply to him. Meanwhile in the real world East Asians, particularly the men, are subject to nearly constant never ending bullying, casual racism, etc, even from self-hating Asian women who literally have bullied ME (a half Asian) by saying stuff like “you need to go to China to get laid.”
Half-Asians can deny this all they want, but at this point I know that they’re straight up lying if they do, and they know they’re lying because they too, are an insecure Eurasian who can’t afford to say the truth because they’re afraid they’ll lose their job or whatever slim chance they have of getting laid.
Elliot’s mother raised him to be white, for integration, assimilation, money, and success purposes. He wasn’t white though. Eurasians never look white except in a minority of cases, and even then he was maybe 80% of the way there, and just looked ambiguous – but not white. It was a very dangerous mentality to pretend or think you’re white when you’re not, and anyone who has discretion (including other Asian women like his own mother) knows he’s not white. He never fully actualized and understood why his mother married a white man, so he just went with “I’m a pretty superior Eurasian” until he stewed in his own self hatred and entitlement. Also his father worked in Hollywood, which basically is the epicenter of racism explicitly directed against East Asian men. Add to this the possibility of the typical cruel mother, racist father dynamic, fighting, throwing things – which may have happened; I don’t know.
He hated Asian men with such ferocity, since many of these Asian / white parents hate Asian men simply because the whole idea was to avoid alienated, low status, non-assimilable Asian men and those pesky, feminist, picky white women who “only date men for their looks / sex”. Asian women became the vestiges of revenge for white men – a way to take back their legacy and take revenge on white women, and Asian men.
He was also immensely triggered by the idea of East Asian men having sex with white women – which is fairly normative, because most people hate this. They even hate the idea of Asian men having sex with Asian women. A lot of men are raised to think that toxic masculinity, money, etc., are the key to women, and when an East Asian man, the supposed lowest of the low, gets women, it disrupts the entire fabric of their reality. This applies to all races; a lot of men of all colors subconsciously inherit this idea that Caucasian wealth, power and appearance means the most access to sex, and, maybe, to some degree – they’re correct (though it does not mean, and will never mean, access to love). The even bigger irony is that when a man fails to get the sex he wants – he almost uniformly defaults to Asian women as his last power play. “Well, I can’t compete in the fair market, might as well ‘dominate’ Asian women with my Big Whatever Cock”.
So naturally Elliot targeted (and murdered) full Asian men and blonde white women – the mortal enemy of untouchable, MGTOW, racist white men and status seeking Asian women. He wanted to feel better than full Asian men and get what he was promised – the white man’s access to women (yet his father couldn’t get white women hence his marriage to not one, but two foreign non-white women).
This mentality is pretty common among Half Asians; “I’m Scottish below the waist,” “we’re not Asian men, we’re Eurasians,” etc. It’s mental illness, a pathetic one, and super, duper common, whether right wing, left wing, etc. They seem to all have this combination of leering insecurity, a need to feel special, a hatred of Asian men, and a hyper-emphasis on their non-Asian side.
Many half-Asians are replacement, knock off “white” men with a massive insecurity over being half Asian when their own insane, belittling mothers were trying to explicitly remove Asianness, while their fathers were looking for maximum return on their whiteness; add to that fact the even more alarming concern of right wing, legit-racist, lower-caste, social-pariah, pseudo-Nazi “I’m not racist, my Asian wife is practically white” types who default to Asian women.
The universal overarching theme with half-Asians is almost always this pathological, deep seated hatred of East Asian men (my guess is, out of insecurity and desperation to dump on someone in a supposedly “lower position”), something that the global population seems to possess, but it’s somehow even worse when it’s on a half-Asian. I wish I could accurately describe just how insecure half-Asians are about being Asian, but, again, I beseech you to really think about what the average WMAF couple does to their sons.
Add to this the fact that Elliot Rodger’s sister was having loud sex with guys in his house (which is basically sexual assault, but again, we’re not allowed to heckin’ talk about this), he basically was messed up from the start, since obviously there’s no changing how hypersexualized our society is while we’re basically never gonna address the trend of unsexable men going for foreign women. It’s a terrible mix; western society has become a sexual meat grinder, and the incels left over basically all go for East Asian women to feel like they’re not left out. Since our new society is so sex-focused and completely drained of any empathy as people grow more and more insecure and desperate, East Asian men will remain the permanent Persona Non Grata – the universal punching bag for the insecurity of every undersexed bastard around. I find it funny that white men visualize this future with their well-educated, super-tall, super-athletic, rich, masculine, beautiful half-Asian sons being able to compete with “Chads”, when they don’t realize that their sons – by their own definition within their own ideal society – fail to meet the mark, due to being half-Asian.
Does the average WMAF couple want mixed sons? Or white sons? You tell me.
Of course, with half-Asians, there is always the issue of broken parents, a racist white father who isn’t getting laid, and a vicious mentally unstable Asian mother who hates herself, her husband, and the fact that her son doesn’t look totally white enough to maintain her fantasy of integration.
All the time, I go outside and I see these “Wasian” guys walking around alone, or on a bike, with this despondent look on their face, heavy eye bags, a look of total forlorn desperation, like in that video “what half Asians wish you knew” on Youtube (You can just look this up and see the thumbnail). I remember on my last trip to America, I saw like two dozen WMAF couples in the space of 15 minutes around Koreatown in Midtown Manhattan, and a bunch of hapas walking around with glazed eyes, alone. Even in Asia, I see thousands upon thousands of happy Asian couples, and the half-Asian men are always alone.
And as a half-Asian who just identifies as full Asian (cause I have no choice), I just straight up spend a lot of time worrying about these cats. The ultimate irony of all of this is that many half-Asians, having such poor quality fathers, and such vicious Asian mothers, are actually in similar situations: basically unlovable / unbangable, but blame it on being half-Asian. In reality, what I actually suspect at the end of the day, is that full Asian men, including totally Asian looking hapas, are unironically better off because what I suspect is that more women seek full Asian or fully East Asian looking men for actual love, than they do for more Caucasian looking men (who are merely used for social ascension). But the world isn’t that simple – it doesn’t allow for just love. It’s the white man’s world, after all, one rooted in greed, theft, and buying access to women, where a man’s worth is how much money he can throw at her. God forbid a woman marries a man because she loves and actually desires him.
And so, we’re locked in an eternal war between ruthless, money-based, status-based WMAF couples and their children – and people who are fine just loving. Just like all my girlfriends have just loved me, because, let’s be honest, I look Asian. I’ve never met a woman who ever liked me for being mixed; it’s always been because I look Asian.
In the words of an Asian female friend of mine, self-loathing Asian women, the losers who go for them, and their children, are just upset that a woman can love an Asian man, more than they could ever love a white man. That’s the nature of this world. Everything is fake other than love.
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Asian women, especially from Asia, don’t prioritize love, and especially do not prioritize sex. This means that they will basically latch onto men with power and money in order to “secure the bag” or “the future.” There’s no sex involved, which is an added bonus to it. The lack of sex / love oftentimes drives even the most nihilistic “bootstraps” conservative white man who thinks that a man’s job is to “provide for his asexual wife” insane, just so long as she isn’t “slutty” and is “traditional” (basically – she won’t sleep with a lot of men; which she can’t, because she’s not sleeping with any man unless she REALLY needs to secure the bag). Like it did my dad.
In fact, the idea of an asexual, “traditional” Asian wife appeals to a lot of literal untouchable men, because they fear female sexuality and the idea that women will choose men based on physical attraction; and Asian women are the odd ones out in that they would rather marry a physically / mentally decrepit white man for “ease of life” over marry for legitimate love and attraction; to them, it seems wrong to do otherwise. Again, this is a wet dream for white / other incels. The idea of finally getting a woman who overlooks his physical unattractiveness and social awkwardness that made him repugnant to all other women. She only cares about money, whiteness and social integration. A match made in hell. Add to the insanity of being belittled and denied intimacy by a woman he went into it specifically in order to “feel big,” and oftentimes these guys drift further and further into rabbit holes of right wing dialectic and take out their hostility on Asian, black, Latino, etc., men.
Honestly – think about what this does to the half-Asian child’s life, which is one of the reasons why many WMAF couples genuinely do not want half-Asian sons.
Undesirable men of all stripes “prefer” Asian women due to the fact that they have an asexual methodology for “securing the bag.” Simply “just be white” or “just have money,” and no matter how old, repugnant, racist a white man is – he can get an Asian wife. It’s basically standard.
The problem with this is that:
A) half-Asian men identify as Asian, and have to live under a social system in which Asian men are cast aside in favor of old, repugnant, racist, bald, incel white men – especially those with money.
B) half-Asian men are raised by two people who do not care about anything but fulfilling their needs to be rewarded for being white – which causes all kinds of havoc and insecurity in half-Asian mental states.
Basically, an entire generation of half-Asians were born to extremely low status, unattractive white men, and their asexual Asian wives looking to “marry up,” not cause it was the right thing to do, but because it was the only thing to do. A very Asian way of doing things. Simple latch onto the underclass of white man hoping to have white babies and a white lifestyle.
Half Asian men have a tendency to be really insecure, as a result of their Asian mothers marrying “up” with a non-Asian male (oftentimes an undesirable one – which more than not results him in being ‘weird’ and racist), and yet resembling or at least having Asian features – as a man.
Then, on top of that, half-Asians are told that they’re “master race” mixed people (which is just an excuse for them not to be full Asian), raised instead by two narcissistic, legitimately racist people who have a hatred of Asian men, leading to some serious overcompensation and delusional, over the top, insecure behavior. There are millions of these guys. Every time I see in the news some vaguely Asian looking guy behaving essentially like a white incel (like his father), guy turns out to be half-Asian. Keep in mind an entire generation of incel, suspect, low desirability white men married Asian women and have fully grown kids now. It’s amazing that WMAF couples push their children as “master race” yet can’t have the self-awareness to understand that the things they say and do to denigrate Asians affects their half-Asian children.
Most if not every single half Asian males I meet, especially the ambiguous ones, are toxic, racist, self loathing and some variant on sexually insecure deeply disturbed weirdos who overcompensate with over the top behavior and / or racism.
As a result of this insecurity many half-Asian males, most of which like most men, can’t get laid without paying for it, go off on people they view as weak targets so that they can elevate themselves. These usually involve full Asian men and black women, who serve as the punching bag for sexually invisible men (and women) everywhere.
Peep this, another WMAF couple doing crazy shit against their, of course, sons. Locking their sons, of course, in cages, is on par for the course for insane WMAF attempting to control or erase Asian-presenting male children, when their entire relationship is based on the child NOT being an Asian male.
My mother tried to kill me on several occasions by driving at high speeds and swerving erratically along the swamps on Long Island, to the point that I had daily recurring nightmares of drowning for 20 years, and last year my brother told me that she told him she wished she had daughters, not sons, cause she was an extreme feminist. Keep in mind, on top of being bullied for being Asian by all groups of people, I had the utter hell of a homelife where my own mother was terrorizing my brother and I, terrorizing my father, and just screaming and raging in homicidal madness 24/7. Then, on top of this, my Asian family denied this was happening because Asians are all about “saving face” and “integrating” at all costs, and never “rocking the boat.”
Obviously the end-of-their-rope unbangable incel white men who marry Asian women out of sexual desperation and hatred for white women, also hate Asian men so now you’re stuck with a WMAF couple who hate Asian males yet are raising Asian sons. It’s really a mystery to me why there aren’t more Elliot Rodgers; guess who Elliot targeted most? Asian men and white women. Sound familiar? Who hates those two groups more than white men and Asian women?
I assure you, without any hyperbole or exaggeration, that biracial Asians are ones to keep an eye on.
The divide between Asian men and Asian women is kind of simple. It’s sort of something I noticed over time. It’s actually the fact that Asian men are hypersexual, but Asian women are not.
As an Asian guy I personally know Asian guys who have an incredibly easy time in being intimate with non Asian women, for the reason being that our features, hairlessness, faces, etc. work well on our faces and makes us what I suspect to be the most attractive males. You can see this even with some of the Amerindian looking Mexican guys and some pretty boy black guys. Long before I even knew about any of this, I used to have this gut feeling that I had it on “easy mode” with sex and dating, because of my facial features.
Asian women, however, have the lowest libidos, so many resent Asian men as being “players” and “unfaithful.”
Also, I have seen white guys, even good looking rich ones, struggle to get past first base with women. Yes, I’ve even seen this with hapa guys as well, at least the whiter and ambiguous ones.
On the other hand, I’ve noticed women are more sexually forward towards me and it was pretty obviously because I was Asian. I had to talk with A LOT of people to understand that what I went through was not normal for a man.
So, a lot of Asian women go for white men precisely to avoid sexuality.
Meanwhile, a lot of XF go for Asian men specifically for sexuality, doing things for Asian men they wouldn’t for white or other men.
This causes the issue in our community and in the perception of Asian men and women. Conservative white men seek out Asian women for being less sexual. Asian men, having way more options than white men, or even other races of men, tend to have very high standards, and fuccboyish behavior, which upsets Asian women. However, conservative white men, due to having no intimacy with their partners, lash out a lot, sometimes getting violent with their Asian female partners, and oftentimes take out their anger on Asian men. Meanwhile, Asian men, being more sexually prolific, can be abusive and demanding, but, also, have a tendency to avoid conservatism and other nefarious politics that come with, for example, trying to undermine others to get laid.
It goes beyond that though. Western white culture is rooted in this idea that women are to be bought, when ironically Asian guys don’t really harbor that greed and need to pay for it. So that’s why you have things like WMAF in Washington advocating with war with socialist, non-warlike China. Everything in this world is sexual.
The problem is that when we half-Asian men somehow get “weaponized” by our Asian mothers and white fathers, to be this “revenge” on Asian men, to identify and be pushed as this replacement white man to sort of represent the nu-conservative identity of the American western male and his bitter, conservative Asian wife. It’s one of the reasons why half-Asian men are usually castrated nutcases; caught between their mother’s anger at Asian men, and their father’s ultra conservatism. The “Americanism” or “westernization” of the half-Asian male becomes a process of desexualizing and sterilizing him to just be a money making machine for the already sterile western hegemony.
Here’s a story about how some white guy with Hollywood connects killed and chopped up his Chinese wife. He has three hapa kids, that I’m aware of, or possibly they were full Asian, whether through a previous partner, or maybe she cheated, who knows.
I’m pretty mentally unstable, but that’s fine, because I’m aware of it and have dedicated over 1/4 of my life to writing about it just to let people know what’s going on. What’s going on is basically: I have a psychotic background and upbringing between two racist people in an interracial relationship, and I look more on the Asian side.
I had some good people in my life who I hurt due to self hatred and my racist phase, and my insecurity, and I’ve wanted to undo it.
Anyways, here’s another case where the white dad murders the Asian mom and her family.
My mom tried to murder me (I think over the fact that she hated my Neo-Nazi white dad and wished for daughters – I’m still torn up about whether she wanted to kill me because I looked too Asian or too white – though I recently learned from my brother that she resented white people and my white father for, well, basically being losers who didn’t value education), and my home was literally so insane with violence and other stuff that it’s a miracle my brother escaped with only being a literal paranoid schizophrenic from the trauma. My Chinese family gave ZERO f*cks. I mean ZERO, it’s like they fundamentally didn’t care at all.
My guess is that this is the usual pattern:
Rich, weird, racist white guy who hates white women (they’re ‘sluts, golddiggers, mudsharks, blah blah blah etc).
Asian woman whose prime directive is to “marry up” (which means white man with money)
No love involved, they both deep down hate each other, she probably cheats on him (she’s a pretty woman, I know Chinese women who literally cheat on their husbands with the husband’s boss). Again, my aunts and own mother admitted to me they didn’t love their white husbands. Obviously there’s zero sexual intimacy, and only deranged amounts of denigration and belittling.
He resents her for not being white and his kids not being white, resents her for being able to tell she doesn’t love him. Zero sex, zero interest in sex, maybe there was never sex at all other than the kids, and if there was, there was no actual intimacy or love. She probably openly insults him, belittles, pesters and attacks him (my mother would openly and insult my father constantly for 20 years).
She resents him because she deep down doesn’t love him, but she doesn’t have a choice because she has to marry white. She literally HAS to, in order to integrate and assimilate.
She probably says insanely cruel things, withholds sex, belittles him and the kids
He grows more and more racist, neurotic, due to the inceldom and nagging and belittling, snaps, kills her and her Asian parents
Now you’ve got three permanently shattered Asian looking half-Asian kids who were raised by a mother who legitimately thought it was a good idea to simply marry a man because he was white.
Virtually any time the discussion of a man who struggles with dating in the west comes up, the ultimate solution that everyone suggests is “go to Asia (East Asia) and find an Asian girl.”
It’s usually followed up with something like “you’ll automatically become Chad in Asia because you’re tall / non-Asian / have a bigger dick.” How delightful and progressive.
How utterly embarassing for half-Asians to have to listen to this as part of popular male culture.
Apparently Asian men are so pathetic that any guy, no matter how bald, ugly, short, racist, socially repugnant, who struggles to get women into him will go to Asia to “fix himself.” So by nature even the biggest loser can get an Asian girl to finally be a man. It’s almost like a rite of passage for the ugliest, most sexually invisible men on the planet, to get with Asian girls.
Why do half-Asians have to deal with this? On top of being considered Asian in the west, we have to deal with having the literal bottom feeders of the west as fathers? And yet half-Asians have the audacity to claim that they’re extremely attractive.
They’re not wrong though; losers indeed do hate Asian men and go for Asian women as their last ditch effort on having sex. Though I doubt many of these couples do have intimacy at all, since, after all, the entire point of “going to Asia” is because the women “apparently” will overlook how ugly / unbangable a man is in favor of getting a status / monetary boost. Which probably is true. I guess these women are notorious enough for their asexuality that it doesn’t matter that the guy looks like Ed Sheeran combined with Michael Cera. There’s no intimacy in the books anyways.
This is one of the reasons why unattractive women of color go for white men – and usually the most unattractive white men; the feeling of being “beautiful” and white and participating in an asexual, cutthroat, “civilized” ultra-capitalist environment makes them feel better about themselves. And ugly white men get to buy themselves out of inceldom, which was the entire point of western civilization in the first place. A literal match made in hell. The ugliest white men getting women of color through means of money and fighting back against men of color and white women. Real progressive.
I had a roommate in college who was like this. All he would do was insult Asians, complain about Asians in the library or cafeteria, make fun of Asian men, say I looked “very Asian at certain angles” (yeah), then he wound up “hooking up” with Asian or half Asian girls. Then in the same breath turn around and harass me, a half-Asian male. And you wonder why half-Asians are nutcases.
He was lanky, bald, nerdy. Just the classic sexually invisible man who couldn’t get non-Asian girls to sexually desire him, kiss him, or sleep with him, so he wound up going for Asian girls. Like most of my male “friends,” he harbored a latent bitterness towards me, for getting better looking women genuinely into me, frankly cause I’m attractive and bangable (though I don’t like to kiss and tell). I get it, I’m so insecure, I’m so desperate, can’t get the poosy, can’t get a kiss, let me just bash on other people to feel big.
These guys go for Asian women as a last resort to feel powerful and strong in their sexuality, since in their minds, despite being rejected by other women, they’re still “bigger than an Asian man.” But deep down they crave the validation that having a white / non-Asian woman see them as truly sexy, but they can’t get it. Oh, I just remembered, it just so happened all these guys came from money. Imagine having all that cash and cars and still can’t get a woman to truly want you – ah, the plight of the average male.
They also simultaneously hate Asian men because this is just classic low-desirability male behavior; to bash others they perceive as beneath them, which generally includes racism. That’s why you can’t hit a racist male and not see an Asian woman behind him. Life is hard, and when you’re insecure you must punch down. Guys who get women for free because they are attractive are always the most uplifting and kind – and none of these guys go for Asian women because of their negative stigma. Add to the fact that “sex” (if it even happens) with a self-hating Asian woman is never fulfilling, and mostly generally about money and practicality (again, if it even happens), and guys with Asian girlfriends or wives wind up being permanently bitter about the fact that not even his own Asian wife / girlfriend wants him. Truly wants him. There’s like a legitimate correlation between how unbangable a man is, how much he “wants” Asian women, and how much he hates Asian men; heck a lot of these guys are half-Asians whose own fathers were like that. Deeply insecure and miserable about their perpetual state of being unwanted by women unless they throw money at it.
Also there’s an element that I’ve seen where a lot of non-Asian men are terrified of women sleeping with black men, so they go for Asian girls subconsciously for the “good girl” thing, because when she doesn’t enjoy sex, there’s a 0% chance she’ll sleep with a black man. Yeah, I wish I was joking. Don’t ask me how I know these things.
The entire point of being Asian is to NOT be Asian. So obviously, being half-Asian is just one step closer to “removing Asianness.”
That’s why most half Asians have a parent who was self hating, because they did not want to be Asian.
It’s not rocket science.
On top of being severely bullied by non-Asians, Asians I’ve met are also severely self hating. When you complain, they call you “white,” then go on to bully you for being an Asian appearing Asian male. The point isn’t to be half-Asian, but to be WHITE. To Americanize ourselves, Anglicize, whatever.
A lot of the things I’ve heard from my Asian family are shocking. Stuff like “I’m going to kiss every white person when I get back to NYC from China.” (An Asian woman said this; NYC is like 40% white). “You need to use your white privilege to take advantage of these Chinese people. (My uncle said this).
When I complain about my mother basically committing suicide to get away from my Nazi sympathizing far right dad, I get told that I’m white and that it’s not a big issue.
If you ever meet a half-Asian and wonder why he or she behaves in the manner he does, it’s because of this dynamic. We aren’t as a whole proud to be Asian, we wish we were white, just as our parents did. Ironically, a self-hating Asian person is even more fiercely pro white than most racist white people are. Half-Asians, often with white dads (but sometimes with white mothers) go out of their way to establish themselves as super-duper white, regardless of whatever this implies. Some double, triple, quadruple down on the racism against other ethnic minorities or Asians, or even half-Asians. I’m pretty sure Elliot Rodger probably would have shot Asian looking half-Asians too. I swear to God above, the next generation of hardcore legitimate white supremacists are all going to be mixed race.
On top of this all of the Asian women in my family admit they didn’t love their white husbands, but only cause they married them to give me a “better life.” This is dumb. It’s nihilistic. If love doesn’t exist, then there is no point in participating in the world. It’s the only positive in a world that is already cutthroat and filled with interpersonal warfare. It’s also heinous to encourage a biracial person to deny half of himself, to win favor from people who already hate you. Life shouldn’t be about heinous acts to simply survive, but it is. I guess that’s what my problem has always been – an unwillingness to partake in the heinousness. I like myself, have always been filled with love, but I have no desire to be here, because the world and its mechanisms do not fit with who I am. The world is not who I am.
Here’s a video of a famous Youtuber in China who has a half-Chinese daughter (I’m sure he thinks he’s lucky to have a daughter, as do most WMAF couples).
Ain’t really a stretch of the imagination to think how and why the kids would be f*cked up.
Not sure why I have to defend this, and when I point this out, I get called a misogynist incel. Even though white men married to Asian women like this are doing it precisely because THEY are incel, and couldn’t get a white woman to tolerate their looks, bad behavior, or general low social status, so they find an Asian woman that they secretly deep down loathe, while punching down on Asian men (the only men they feel are lower than their pathetic asses), and making fun of their own kids. Add to the fact that these guys wind up sexually frustrated because the nasty, domineering, asexual Asian woman isn’t attracted to him, like, at all, and even if she was, Asians are famous for seeing marriage as a commoditized amenity, with which love has nothing to do with it. Hell, I’m starting to think this is how most people think, hence I’m the only one sounding the alarms.
The mass of people genuinely think women are to be bought and plied with money, and that that’s what life is about.
We get it, life is hard, gotta marry the white man for the money; him being racist is fine as long as the Asian mom gets money, social ascension and whiter children, fine, fine, okay. If you criticize her choices, you’re seen as an incel, a bitter Asian man. (Even though my mother basically killed herself after learning my father was a Nazi). Such a nihilistic way of looking at life. At this point it isn’t even about the kids; it’s about creating life solely for the purpose of stabilizing a hellish existence and siphoning money off a man.
You’re free to say all you want about this, but now we’ve got millions of kids running around from this pairing, being trained to hate their Asian side by their own fathers and complicit mothers. How could this even possibly be good? Basically half-Asians are raised to be replacement white people – except we’re not, we’re half-Asian, which our own mothers did not want to be.
In what world is this healthy?
The worst part is that the reason why most WMAF hapas don’t talk about this, is precisely because they’re white supremacists and learned it from their mothers and fathers; hate on Asians, accept toxic, racist WMAF just so long as you get paid to do it. They truly do believe Asian men are inferior and that white men are superior. So when an Asian looking hapa complains, we get called incels and inferior, by default.
Hear me out. I’m not saying all mixed Asians are criminals, but rather that there’s a unique element behind men with yellow fever, and self-hating, vicious Asian women. I heard some hapa guy say this once – he was surprised there aren’t more Elliot Rodgers.
I’ve left details all over this blog about how my own mother wanted to kill me, due to being a “feminist,” and that she had hoped for two daughters. I’ve often queried whether WMAF or XMAF couples (couples involving Asian women, and not Asian men), wanted sons at all, instead overwhelmingly preferred daughters.
There is still a lot of evidence that this may be true.
Anyways, when some men go for Asian women, they do so with this belief that Asian men are small-dicked, pathetic, short, undesirable losers. I’ve heard my aunt, who has a white male husband that she never kisses or touches, claim that “all Japanese men are short.” This is the same thing I heard Steven Crowder (a far right pundit) say. So, not only have I had to deal with racist comments my entire life as a half-Asian, but the Asian women in my family are saying it too.
So, when a non-Asian man gets with an Asian woman who hates Asian men, obviously there’s a high chance the kids come out looking like an Asian male.
What then? Well, in the above case, they beat the shit out of the kid. Why? Well, cause he’s basically an Asian male. All you really need to be an “Asian guy” is have Asian eyes, or even some other features.
I’m flat out floored there aren’t more psychotic half-Asians of all mixes running around. After all, we have to endure being half-Asian in a world where literally everyone thinks it’s fair to bash on us.
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