Bottom of the barrel, undesirable, racist white men and their Asian girlfriends and wives

Asian women, especially from Asia, don’t prioritize love, and especially do not prioritize sex. This means that they will basically latch onto men with power and money in order to “secure the bag” or “the future.” There’s no sex involved, which is an added bonus to it. The lack of sex / love oftentimes drives even the most nihilistic “bootstraps” conservative white man who thinks that a man’s job is to “provide for his asexual wife” insane, just so long as she isn’t “slutty” and is “traditional” (basically – she won’t sleep with a lot of men; which she can’t, because she’s not sleeping with any man unless she REALLY needs to secure the bag). Like it did my dad.

In fact, the idea of an asexual, “traditional” Asian wife appeals to a lot of literal untouchable men, because they fear female sexuality and the idea that women will choose men based on physical attraction; and Asian women are the odd ones out in that they would rather marry a physically / mentally decrepit white man for “ease of life” over marry for legitimate love and attraction; to them, it seems wrong to do otherwise. Again, this is a wet dream for white / other incels. The idea of finally getting a woman who overlooks his physical unattractiveness and social awkwardness that made him repugnant to all other women. She only cares about money, whiteness and social integration. A match made in hell. Add to the insanity of being belittled and denied intimacy by a woman he went into it specifically in order to “feel big,” and oftentimes these guys drift further and further into rabbit holes of right wing dialectic and take out their hostility on Asian, black, Latino, etc., men.

Honestly – think about what this does to the half-Asian child’s life, which is one of the reasons why many WMAF couples genuinely do not want half-Asian sons.

Undesirable men of all stripes “prefer” Asian women due to the fact that they have an asexual methodology for “securing the bag.” Simply “just be white” or “just have money,” and no matter how old, repugnant, racist a white man is – he can get an Asian wife. It’s basically standard.

The problem with this is that:

A) half-Asian men identify as Asian, and have to live under a social system in which Asian men are cast aside in favor of old, repugnant, racist, bald, incel white men – especially those with money.

B) half-Asian men are raised by two people who do not care about anything but fulfilling their needs to be rewarded for being white – which causes all kinds of havoc and insecurity in half-Asian mental states.

Basically, an entire generation of half-Asians were born to extremely low status, unattractive white men, and their asexual Asian wives looking to “marry up,” not cause it was the right thing to do, but because it was the only thing to do. A very Asian way of doing things. Simple latch onto the underclass of white man hoping to have white babies and a white lifestyle.

The insecure half-Asian man

Half Asian men have a tendency to be really insecure, as a result of their Asian mothers marrying “up” with a non-Asian male (oftentimes an undesirable one – which more than not results him in being ‘weird’ and racist), and yet resembling or at least having Asian features – as a man.

Then, on top of that, half-Asians are told that they’re “master race” mixed people (which is just an excuse for them not to be full Asian), raised instead by two narcissistic, legitimately racist people who have a hatred of Asian men, leading to some serious overcompensation and delusional, over the top, insecure behavior. There are millions of these guys. Every time I see in the news some vaguely Asian looking guy behaving essentially like a white incel (like his father), guy turns out to be half-Asian. (The founder of 8chan and his son – for example). Keep in mind an entire generation of incel, suspect, low desirability white men married Asian women and have fully grown kids now. It’s amazing that WMAF couples push their children as “master race” yet can’t have the self-awareness to understand that the things they say and do to denigrate Asians affects their half-Asian children.

Most if not every single half Asian males I meet, especially the ambiguous ones, are toxic, racist, self loathing and some variant on sexually insecure deeply disturbed weirdos who overcompensate with over the top behavior and / or racism.

As a result of this insecurity many half-Asian males, most of which like most men, can’t get laid without paying for it, go off on people they view as weak targets so that they can elevate themselves. These usually involve full Asian men and black women, who serve as the punching bag for sexually invisible men (and women) everywhere.

WMAF couples hate their own sons

https://www.wptv.com/news/state/university-of-florida-scientists-accused-of-keeping-children-in-cages

Peep this, another WMAF couple doing crazy shit against their, of course, sons. Locking their sons, of course, in cages, is on par for the course for insane WMAF attempting to control or erase Asian-presenting male children, when their entire relationship is based on the child NOT being an Asian male.

My mother tried to kill me on several occasions by driving at high speeds and swerving erratically along the swamps on Long Island, to the point that I had daily recurring nightmares of drowning for 20 years, and last year my brother told me that she told him she wished she had daughters, not sons, cause she was an extreme feminist. Keep in mind, on top of being bullied for being Asian by all groups of people, I had the utter hell of a homelife where my own mother was terrorizing my brother and I, terrorizing my father, and just screaming and raging in homicidal madness 24/7. Then, on top of this, my Asian family denied this was happening because Asians are all about “saving face” and “integrating” at all costs, and never “rocking the boat.”

Obviously the end-of-their-rope unbangable incel white men who marry Asian women out of sexual desperation and hatred for white women, also hate Asian men so now you’re stuck with a WMAF couple who hate Asian males yet are raising Asian sons. It’s really a mystery to me why there aren’t more Elliot Rodgers; guess who Elliot targeted most? Asian men and white women. Sound familiar? Who hates those two groups more than white men and Asian women?

I assure you, without any hyperbole or exaggeration, that biracial Asians are ones to keep an eye on.

“Go to Asia” as the solution for every white / non-Asian loser male on the planet

Virtually any time the discussion of a man who struggles with dating in the west comes up, the ultimate solution that everyone suggests is “go to Asia (East Asia) and find an Asian girl.”

It’s usually followed up with something like “you’ll automatically become Chad in Asia because you’re tall / non-Asian / have a bigger dick.” How delightful and progressive.

How utterly embarassing for half-Asians to have to listen to this as part of popular male culture.

Apparently Asian men are so pathetic that any guy, no matter how bald, ugly, short, racist, socially repugnant, who struggles to get women into him will go to Asia to “fix himself.” So by nature even the biggest loser can get an Asian girl to finally be a man. It’s almost like a rite of passage for the ugliest, most sexually invisible men on the planet, to get with Asian girls.

Why do half-Asians have to deal with this? On top of being considered Asian in the west, we have to deal with having the literal bottom feeders of the west as fathers? And yet half-Asians have the audacity to claim that they’re extremely attractive.

They’re not wrong though; losers indeed do hate Asian men and go for Asian women as their last ditch effort on having sex. Though I doubt many of these couples do have intimacy at all, since, after all, the entire point of “going to Asia” is because the women “apparently” will overlook how ugly / unbangable a man is in favor of getting a status / monetary boost. Which probably is true. I guess these women are notorious enough for their asexuality that it doesn’t matter that the guy looks like Ed Sheeran combined with Michael Cera. There’s no intimacy in the books anyways.

This is one of the reasons why unattractive women of color go for white men – and usually the most unattractive white men; the feeling of being “beautiful” and white and participating in an asexual, cutthroat, “civilized” ultra-capitalist environment makes them feel better about themselves. And ugly white men get to buy themselves out of inceldom, which was the entire point of western civilization in the first place. A literal match made in hell. The ugliest white men getting women of color through means of money and fighting back against men of color and white women. Real progressive.

There’s no point in being proud to be Asian as a half-Asian

The entire point of being Asian is to NOT be Asian. So obviously, being half-Asian is just one step closer to “removing Asianness.”

That’s why most half Asians have a parent who was self hating, because they did not want to be Asian.

It’s not rocket science.

On top of being severely bullied by non-Asians, Asians I’ve met are also severely self hating. When you complain, they call you “white,” then go on to bully you for being an Asian appearing Asian male. The point isn’t to be half-Asian, but to be WHITE. To Americanize ourselves, Anglicize, whatever.

A lot of the things I’ve heard from my Asian family are shocking. Stuff like “I’m going to kiss every white person when I get back to NYC from China.” (An Asian woman said this; NYC is like 40% white). “You need to use your white privilege to take advantage of these Chinese people. (My uncle said this).

When I complain about my mother basically committing suicide to get away from my Nazi sympathizing far right dad, I get told that I’m white and that it’s not a big issue.

If you ever meet a half-Asian and wonder why he or she behaves in the manner he does, it’s because of this dynamic. We aren’t as a whole proud to be Asian, we wish we were white, just as our parents did. Ironically, a self-hating Asian person is even more fiercely pro white than most racist white people are. Half-Asians, often with white dads (but sometimes with white mothers) go out of their way to establish themselves as super-duper white, regardless of whatever this implies. Some double, triple, quadruple down on the racism against other ethnic minorities or Asians, or even half-Asians. I’m pretty sure Elliot Rodger probably would have shot Asian looking half-Asians too. I swear to God above, the next generation of hardcore legitimate white supremacists are all going to be mixed race.

On top of this all of the Asian women in my family admit they didn’t love their white husbands, but only cause they married them to give me a “better life.” This is dumb. It’s nihilistic. If love doesn’t exist, then there is no point in participating in the world. It’s the only positive in a world that is already cutthroat and filled with interpersonal warfare. It’s also heinous to encourage a biracial person to deny half of himself, to win favor from people who already hate you. Life shouldn’t be about heinous acts to simply survive, but it is. I guess that’s what my problem has always been – an unwillingness to partake in the heinousness. I like myself, have always been filled with love, but I have no desire to be here, because the world and its mechanisms do not fit with who I am. The world is not who I am.

The psychology Half-Asians with racist white fathers and self-hating Asian mothers

Here’s a video of a famous Youtuber in China who has a half-Chinese daughter (I’m sure he thinks he’s lucky to have a daughter, as do most WMAF couples).

C-Milk aka Matthew Tye Showing us He Only Hates The Chinese Government
byu/UndoubtedlyABot inExpatshame

Ain’t really a stretch of the imagination to think how and why the kids would be f*cked up.

Not sure why I have to defend this, and when I point this out, I get called a misogynist incel. Even though white men married to Asian women like this are doing it precisely because THEY are incel, and couldn’t get a white woman to tolerate their looks, bad behavior, or general low social status, so they find an Asian woman that they secretly deep down loathe, while punching down on Asian men (the only men they feel are lower than their pathetic asses), and making fun of their own kids. Add to the fact that these guys wind up sexually frustrated because the nasty, domineering, asexual Asian woman isn’t attracted to him, like, at all, and even if she was, Asians are famous for seeing marriage as a commoditized amenity, with which love has nothing to do with it. Hell, I’m starting to think this is how most people think, hence I’m the only one sounding the alarms.

The mass of people genuinely think women are to be bought and plied with money, and that that’s what life is about.

We get it, life is hard, gotta marry the white man for the money; him being racist is fine as long as the Asian mom gets money, social ascension and whiter children, fine, fine, okay. If you criticize her choices, you’re seen as an incel, a bitter Asian man. (Even though my mother basically killed herself after learning my father was a Nazi). Such a nihilistic way of looking at life. At this point it isn’t even about the kids; it’s about creating life solely for the purpose of stabilizing a hellish existence and siphoning money off a man.

You’re free to say all you want about this, but now we’ve got millions of kids running around from this pairing, being trained to hate their Asian side by their own fathers and complicit mothers. How could this even possibly be good? Basically half-Asians are raised to be replacement white people – except we’re not, we’re half-Asian, which our own mothers did not want to be.

In what world is this healthy?

The worst part is that the reason why most WMAF hapas don’t talk about this, is precisely because they’re white supremacists and learned it from their mothers and fathers; hate on Asians, accept toxic, racist WMAF just so long as you get paid to do it. They truly do believe Asian men are inferior and that white men are superior. So when an Asian looking hapa complains, we get called incels and inferior, by default.

I’m surprised there aren’t more Elliot Rodgers

BMAF couple arrested after Hapa newborn hospitalized with broken bones, bite marks
byu/LikeableMisanthrope inhapas

Hear me out. I’m not saying all mixed Asians are criminals, but rather that there’s a unique element behind men with yellow fever, and self-hating, vicious Asian women. I heard some hapa guy say this once – he was surprised there aren’t more Elliot Rodgers.

I’ve left details all over this blog about how my own mother wanted to kill me, due to being a “feminist,” and that she had hoped for two daughters. I’ve often queried whether WMAF or XMAF couples (couples involving Asian women, and not Asian men), wanted sons at all, instead overwhelmingly preferred daughters.

There is still a lot of evidence that this may be true.

Anyways, when some men go for Asian women, they do so with this belief that Asian men are small-dicked, pathetic, short, undesirable losers. I’ve heard my aunt, who has a white male husband that she never kisses or touches, claim that “all Japanese men are short.” This is the same thing I heard Steven Crowder (a far right pundit) say. So, not only have I had to deal with racist comments my entire life as a half-Asian, but the Asian women in my family are saying it too.

So, when a non-Asian man gets with an Asian woman who hates Asian men, obviously there’s a high chance the kids come out looking like an Asian male.

What then? Well, in the above case, they beat the shit out of the kid. Why? Well, cause he’s basically an Asian male. All you really need to be an “Asian guy” is have Asian eyes, or even some other features.

I’m flat out floored there aren’t more psychotic half-Asians of all mixes running around. After all, we have to endure being half-Asian in a world where literally everyone thinks it’s fair to bash on us.

The hapa “dating scene” is a comical mess (and a lot of hapa males are gay)

For reference, I’ve “dated” all types of girls, but basically, I’d be a virgin if it weren’t for women asking me out. It turns out that this was more of an Asian experience, something that I learned from my Asian friends. Girls can be sort of aggressive towards us, maybe because they think we’re shy. I literally have zero preference for what race women are and I’ve always thought people who focused on this were weird.

I mention that because I immediately get called “incel” whenever I talk about how weird hapas are. Whatever. I’m obsessed with this topic because I think the kind of casual racism that gets passed around by a group of people who are supposed to be “post racial” makes my stomach churn. Also since my kids will pass as full Asian, I want to prepare them for a world where this kind of thing is a reality. I also literally had a stereotypical racist white dad / screaming, suicidal, murderous Chinese tiger mom, so I know what that kind of hellish scenario can do to ones’ mind. I’ve always been super proud to be Chinese and the fact that there are hapas out there who can’t get laid despite claiming that they’re “master race Eurasians,” and badmouthing full Asians in every other breath while literally worshipping the ground that white men walk on – makes me uncomfortable and very much alarmed. Part of my super proudness about being Chinese is because my mother literally hated my father for being white, since “white men didn’t know how to study.” Why she married him? I don’t know, I guess she was unattractive.

A lot of what I think saved me from the fate of some really, really, really sad sack hapas (the kind you see around with no maidens, taking selfies in their car asking people to ‘guess their phenotype’ and other weird, desperate, sad sack sh*t), is simply associating with Asian men, so that I ultimately understand I was living the Asian male experience, not the ‘mixed race’ one.

For reference, I don’t know a single hapa girl who dates hapa men. I’ve never seen it despite what people claim online. I know over a dozen AMWF hapas and none of them like Asian men, so it’s not a stretch of imagination to think that the WMAF hapas don’t (actually, I got stalked by a WMAF hapa girl who was clearly not interested in her white husband, and I’ve heard from Asian guys about hapa girls basically throwing themselves at them – but I can’t say I’ve ever seen an AMWF hapa do this). On subs like /r/mixedrace, there are always posts by hapa girls who ask “is it strange that I only date white men?” or, posts where hapa girls complain about how their white boyfriend is racist (something I’m familiar, given that my dad was racist, my aunt’s boyfriends were racist).

I’ve written a lot at how I suspect white men’s racism comes from their inability to actually sexually consummate with women, so it makes them bitter and unable to empathize. I’m saying, yeah, basically, even despite being in relationships, I don’t think white guys really ever get women truly desiring them, and this makes them racist. It took me 30 to realize that even people in relationships can be miserable and not have sex, and this is why my dad was so miserable. I think a lot of hapa males also are unable to truly empathize for the same reason: they view life as just a cutthroat competition, taking L’s and faking W’s until they can maybe, just maybe, raise their shot of getting laid or whatever from 0% to 0.1%.

I’ve also mentioned that a lot of Asian and hapa girls and other non-white women who are literally asexual, all go for white men. I don’t know why that is. I think with such a cutthroat, asexual attitude towards life, they view social ascension as taking priority over love. (On the other hand, I’ve had girls basically come after me and other Asian guys primarily for sex – and none of them ever mentioned that they liked that I was mixed. They all were with Asian guys). There’s an incredibly overlap between asexuality, homosexuality, and this preference for white men – like, being with a white man represents “being included,” but disregards all of the better aspects about being alive on this planet (namely, loving everyone equally).

Given this is the situation with hapa girls, and many hapa girls have brothers, I can’t even imagine the psychosis going on with hapa guys. Some hapa girl on /r/hapas told me that “women care about kindness, and being provided with a stable life,” but then I think back to how Elliot Rodger’s sister was having loud sex in the house while he was there and I’m like, nah. I honest to God don’t think most hapa men can endure the kind of things they go through as a half-Asian male living around self-hating Asian women.

Having been around a lot, I can’t ever really say I’ve known a hapa guy who has done very well with women, probably as a result of the interracial dynamic of their parents – white man (oftentimes racist and unattractive), and self-loathing Asian woman. I’m not sure why anyone would think a hapa son would be okay, given that most people identify us as Asian. I see a lot of these hapa guys online, and they claim they’re fine, but they wind up inevitably being gay or transitioning into women, likely as a result of their failure to self-actualize as a sexual male. Some black women I talked to on LipStickAlley call this the “biracial to gay pipeline.” Unfortunately, it seems extremely common among biracial Asians, either due to being so turned off by their mother’s vicious treatment of the father, or because they are so severely emasculated and bullied for being Asian in the same environment that their mothers and sisters were trying to integrate into, that many half-Asian men take to being with men to find love and companionship. I even have a completely neutral Asian female friend who mentioned that she noticed that a lot of hapa men were gay.

When you take into fact that a huge number of mixed race people are gay, it makes way more sense that they are adamantly so defensive of their white fathers and white men in general – after all, white men dominate the gay dating hierarchy, as that community is notoriously racist; convenient, because incels are also notoriously racist, especially against Asian men.

Coincidence?

You gotta remember, society is already racist against Asian men and this is not going to stop, like, ever; and to have women in your family actively declare they find Asian men unattractive for no reason (well, there are reasons, which they won’t admit; namely that Asian men are low status), it will have profound psychological effects on the children.

Right wing and white supremacist Half-Asians

I think this is something that everyone should know, and it has always been my moral duty for everyone to know. Shamefully, I went through a stage where I was “far right,” but only as a result of my father’s and my white family’s influence. I felt insecure about not being “white,” basically, so I overcompensated.

There’s a lot of right wing, white supremacist half Asians out there. I went through a Neo-Nazi phase myself because I was under the influence of my father, and I feel incredible shame about this. I wanted to be white. My father and family were openly proud to be white and was the typical “decline of the west” type. I had friends in college who introduced me to “Jewish conspiracies” while simultaneously subtly bullying me for being Asian, and this led me to become deeply insecure about being Asian.

Basically, there’s no point in being half white, when you can be full white, and not half-Asian, because being Asian is seen as weird and non-masculine on a male, and there’s so much bullying against Asians. That’s why so many half-Asians act like off brand “white guys,” because our mothers raised us to be this way; after all, our mothers believed marrying a white man was a superior option to marrying an Asian man, “for an easier life of white privilege” – which is why most half-Asians are pretty much de facto white supremacist “Whasians” (even that term is cringe and only exists because most of us are half white).

Our fathers went for Asian women as a way to “take back power” from “slutty traitorous white women.” A lot of white men resent white women for having sex with, let’s just use the most common example – black or Hispanic men. In their mind, they are so traumatized by the sexuality of “non traditional” white women who are not attracted to them, that they will tolerate a completely asexual dead bedroom with a vicious, upwardly climbing Asian woman who doesn’t love them, just out of loneliness and a feeling of power and revenge.

So, when they have kids, I’ve seen white men name their sons ridiculous names like “Maximus” or “Augustus.” They’re so insecure and narcissistic they want their half-Asian sons to “carry on the legacy of the west,” after white women “betrayed” them (simply by not finding them attractive).

A lot of half-Asians who look ambiguous, white, or whatever, wind up never really actualizing and just going along with this, being full blown right wing, anti-POC, anti-Asian, and just supporting every ludicrous right wing talking point under the sun. Asian-knockoff white guys, basically. A lot inherit the very ice-cold pragmatism of Asians and the “bootstraps” mentality of boomer whites, and have this equally asexual, conservative outlook on life, where they just have to ape white masculinity and throw money at women to get them, the entire time being deeply insecure about being Asian through their mothers who are very open about not loving their fathers.

Guys who women genuinely sexually desire have a tendency to not care so much. Life is about love, so, again, this just proves many half-Asians are just as incel as their fathers.

The emasculation of half-Asian men by their own parents

Let’s just run this down as simply as possible:

1. It’s well known that there’s a subset of Asian women who prefer white men and whiteness, and are vicious towards Asian men. Left to their own devices, Asian men won’t exist – so who is to replace them?
2. That means that half-Asian children are born, and the sons, in particular, are not white men. Some look white-er, but aren’t white, and look slightly “Asian” compared to white men (the ideal). Others look non-white. Others look straight up Asian. The idea isn’t really to have half-Asian children, but white children. The idea is to marry up. Only whiteness is worthy of reproducing. Call me an “incel” all you want but even they admit this themselves.
3. Since Asian men are seen as undesirable by their own mothers, growing up under these conditions (in particular the “je ne sais quois” of WMAF) – where your parents have total sway over your development – leads to subconscious emasculation.

My female Asian friend mentioned that half-Asians and mixed race people seem to have tendency to be gay and / or trans more often. It sounds non-PC, but I wonder if being hammered in the face by WMAF your entire life has any result in this. Even for me, it was an uphill battle to accept myself, and it was entirely because of the support of kind non-Asians (mostly women) that I was able to. Other half-Asians adopt a similar white supremacist, cutthroat, “take what you can get,” money hungry view of life, posturing themselves as “almost white.” Between those two groups, I don’t think there are many variations on this model.

I need to remind you – as a half-Asian male – I too have faced mockery and discrimination for being half-Asian, by Asian women. Things are rough out there, sexually, at least. This world really is a meat grinder, financially, socially, and yeah, sexually.

The thing is that I think hook-up culture rewards guys who are sexy. The guys who aren’t sexy, are the guys who go for Asian women, and who Asian women go for – because Asian women don’t like sex, and Asian men are seen as cheaters. So you have a lot of older, less desirable, balder white guys with Asian wives – that raise half Asian kids in a non-Asian world that rewards attractive people.

What saved me? Well, for one, maybe being on the taller side? I’ve heard everything from “you don’t look Chinese at all,” to “you blend in very well with Asians.” Then again, I must reiterate that my Asian mother, having died, had no influence on my life, so I was more confident in being Asian, and was with many women who had a history of also liking Asian guys. I had no support, at all, from Asians, when it came to my toxic parents and my self-loathing issues.

So, I’m not sure. From what I understand at a baseline level – if your mother is one of those Asian women who really, really, really thinks that marrying a white man is her only real option in life (for social standing, integration, etc)., and you’re mixed, well, obviously it’s going to affect how you turn out. Especially if you identify as an Asian man, and your parents’ entire marriage was based on the idea that the man not be Asian.